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The Five Stages of Projection: Re-Owning Our Abandoned Self

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Written by: Bill Plotkin, Ph.D.

The Five Stages of Projection: Re-Owning Our Abandoned Self

Why do we project our repressed parts? Why can't or don't those parts just remain peacefully buried -- or asleep in the basement -- and let us go on undisturbed with our "normal" lives? Apparently there is no way to avoid it even while there are limitless ways to ignore or deny it...

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Always A Reflection: Finding the Missing Quality

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Written by: Shakti Gawain

Always A Reflection: Finding the Missing Quality

Difficulties we are having in our relationships often mirror parts of ourselves that we need to heal. Such difficulties may involve a family member, a close friend, a coworker, or even a clerk in a store. If you are having difficulty with a relationship take...

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To Push or Not To Push? How To Raise A Successful and Happy Child

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Written by: Jim Taylor, Ph.D.

How To Raise A Successful and Happy Child

What do kids really need to be successful and happy people? Parents, educators, and society as a whole couldn't ask a more important question. How you answer this question will determine how you will raise your child, and, ultimately, what kind of adult he will become... 

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My Forest Vision: Altered State, Altered Life and A New Perception of the World

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Written by: Cheryl Canfield

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The quest to discover 'Who am I?' and 'Why am I here?' is often preceded by some crisis that serves as a wake-up call and has the potential to propel us, if we're willing, into a more expanded or spiritual awareness. It was cancer that gave me the opportunity to test the principles I had...

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Can Love Make You Whole? Discovering the Sacred Connection

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Written by: Julie Tallard Johnson

Can Love Make You Whole? Discovering the Sacred Connection

Unfortunately, many of us get lost on our way to find wholeness and happiness — we get lost in search of the perfect Other instead of seeking our whole and true self. When you depend on a romantic relationship to make you feel okay or whole, you can get into trouble...

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Not As Simple As 'No Means No'? What Young People Need To Know About Consent

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Written by: Jacqueline Hendriks

Not As Simple As 'No Means No': What Young People Need To Know About Consent

A recent petition circulated by Sydney school girl Chanel Contos called for schools to provide better education on consent, and to do so much earlier.

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How To Get from Cheesy Relationships to a Gourmet Banquet (Video)

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Written by: Alan Cohen

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Many of us settle for meager rations in life while we are entitled to enjoy a great banquet. One of the areas we tend to starve ourselves in is relationships.

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How To Get from Cheesy Relationships to a Gourmet Banquet

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Written by: Alan Cohen

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Many of us settle for meager rations in life while we are entitled to enjoy a great banquet. One of the areas we tend to starve ourselves in is relationships.

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Making Peace With Our Relationship Status

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Written by: Jude Bijou

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Regardless of whether we're on our own or partnered up, with or without children, we need to accept our situation and embrace it. Complaining won't change it. Neither will feeling hopeless or helpless.

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How To Avoid Arguments Over Where To Get Dinner Together

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Written by: Peggy Liu and Kate Min

How To Avoid Arguments Over Where To Get Dinner Together

We’ve all experienced this sort of exchange in our lives, in which we ask someone else, “What do you want to do?” It could be about food, an evening activity or pretty much any other shared activity.

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Making Peace with Our Relationship Status (Video)

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Written by: Jude Bijou

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Most all of us know the Rolling Stones' line, "You can't always get what you want." That's definitely true about our relationship status.

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Overcoming Fear in Communication: The Price of Positive Change

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Written by: Tina Gilbertson

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Open and honest communication requires us to expose our true thoughts and feelings. Once those are out of our mouths, they can be criticized, ridiculed, or rejected. When we’re not used to being vulnerable, it seems safer to...

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Befriending the Shadow: Transforming Darkness Into Light

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Written by: Robert Ohotto

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When we don't recognize or accept certain parts of our own nature - positive and negative - we'll project these qualities onto others. Those who anger, irritate, frustrate, and even consciously attempt to sabotage us are our greatest teachers...

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The New Golden Rule: Becoming Citizens of the World

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Written by: Daisaku Ikeda

From Utopia to Materialism to Becoming Citizens of the World

Our youth, to whom we will entrust the twenty-first century, look upon neither their future nor their world with bright hope. This is why I feel compelled to discuss the problems of our youth, particularly in the advanced industrialized nations...

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Honesty: The Only Hope for New Relationships

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Written by: Susan Campbell, Ph.D.

Honesty: The Only Hope for New Relationships

According to most of the singles I have met in my travels, the typical dating situation is fraught with fear. It seems that when people believe there's a lot at stake, they get nervous and instead of being their creative, delightful selves, they resort to various anxiety management strategies...

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How To Heal A Broken Heart With A 7-Step Heartbreak Recovery Program

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Written by: Elisha Gabriell

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I recently recovered from a broken heart. The man I had been deeply in love with, and believed was my life-partner, was not in love with me. I decided to take an active part in my healing process. I hurt too deeply to simply leave it to "time". Here is my seven step heartbreak recovery program.

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Do You Wish To Keep Love Alive? Here's How...

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Written by: Linda & Charlie Bloom

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Quite a few people have bought into the widely held myth that-long term relationships eventually become flat and boring. This belief, if unchallenged can lead to a self-fulfilling prophecy that will eventually create the reality that we fear.

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Do You Wish To Keep Love Alive? Here's How (Video)

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Written by: Linda & Charlie Bloom

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Quite a few people have bought into the widely held myth that-long term relationships eventually become flat and boring. This belief, if unchallenged can lead to a self-fulfilling prophecy that will eventually create the reality that we fear.

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To Find Friends, Plant Seeds of Friendship

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Written by: Donald Altman

To Find Friends, Plant Seeds of Friendship

It goes without saying that harming others does not a friendly community make. We can begin to refrain from doing harm while cultivating love and good relations. When we live with this value, we honor all with whom we...

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Does Your Young Child Need a Screen Intervention?

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Written by: Carmen Viktoria Gamper

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It's completely understandable when parents give their young children their iPhone or iPad to help them wait at a doctor's office, sit at a restaurant, or allow the parent to simply catch up with household errands. But after it happens, their children may continually ask to play with the device.

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Why You Should Pass Your First Language, And Accent, To Your Kids

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Written by: Chloé Diskin-Holdaway and Paola Escudero

Why You Should Pass Your First Language, And Accent, To Your Kids

We found many first-generation migrant parents are hesitant to pass on their first language to their children. This is because they believe a different language at home will give their children a foreign accent.

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